If navigating challenging scenarios was a course, the COVID-19 pandemic created a master class opportunity for everyone. Unprecedented is the word used most to describe the past 18 months and while it is typically used to describe responding to increased business challenges, the course of the virus and community needs, I’d like to offer an alternate way to think about it. The past 18 months have been unprecedented in the way that friends, family, and colleagues have genuinely shown up for each other. It is the silver lining that I hope doesn’t fade as we see some normalcy just around the bend.

This year, I’ve thought a little bit more about gratitude at work. In the past, gratitude at work was aligned with my team excelling in their roles, knocking a project out of the park, a colleague supporting me as I navigated a tough stakeholder management situation, or covering a meeting for me. All things that are much appreciated, but the gratitude I feel now runs deeper. Over the summer, I learned that my mom was going to have major surgery. I knew I needed some support while I’d be managing a busy career and addressing concerns about my mother’s health. A colleague reminded me that our Vanguard benefits plan includes expanded access to mental wellbeing benefits and encouraged me to sign up. I was equipped with tools and tactics to help me thrive. I feel fortunate to work for a firm that supports crew with a suite of benefits that addresses all aspects of employee wellbeing.

As the surgery date drew near, I was grateful for the distraction of a very busy work schedule but knew that I would need to take some time off. As someone who has always taken pride in being a shoulder for others to lean on, I felt uncomfortable asking for help.

Me and Mom

Over the next two weeks as I took time off work to care for my mom (and my dad as he was caring for my mom), I can safely say that I have never felt my heart so full of sheer gratitude.

I’m grateful that Vanguard supports caregiver time off so that I could be there for my family when they needed it most. I’m grateful for my friends who checked in on me all hours of the day. I’m grateful for my teams who not only called with messages of support, but also kept the business running smoothly during one of our busiest seasons. Most of all, I will forever be grateful for the talented surgeons, doctors and wonderful nurses that were there every step of the way. 90 days post-surgery and my mom is doing great!

I think back on this journey with gratitude, and I’m reminded of a quote from Albert Schweitzer and I’m grateful for the sparks in my life.

“At times, our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.” – Albert Schweitzer

– Tamara T.